Cervical Cancer Support

Question: I found out that the colors Teal and White show support for cervical cancer...does anyone know of an? organization that is supporting that cancer

Answer: here is what i found........ http://www.nccc-online.org/about.html http://www.rho.org/organizations.htm http://www.cancernews.com/support.html http://www.path.org/projects/accp.php http://cancer.about.com/od/glossary/tp/cancerorg.htm

Question: Cervical Cancer? I am 15 weeks pregnant and a mother of a 6 month old baby! I have been diagnosed with stage 1 cervical cancer. They cannot help me until I have my baby obviously. I have done some research on the probablity of recovery. Some people have told me that cervical cancer is highly curible. I needed some advice or scenerios of women who has gone through this not neccisarily pregnant at the same time, just experienced this type of cancer. I need this for support mostly.

Answer: Sweetie all I can tell you is to pray....He'll get you through it. Sorry I couldn't relate.

Question: Cervical cancer patient looking for support from other women...? I'm 35. Have 9yr old daughter, natural childbirth. No complications. Cervix was glassy-smooth until two years ago, started to become hard and rough in one spot at cervix opening. Have paps every year. May 2006 first abnormal pap. Result said "suggest colposcopy and biopsy", with repeat pap in 6 months. Biopsies came back two neg and one pos. Had another pap, another colposcopy, another three biopsies, and now I'm going in for cone-biopsy (in-hospital) this month. I'm done having children, and I'm already experiencing hot flashes, soaking night sweats, and male hair patterns are showing up (hirsutism). I also have a lot of bleeding, heavy, large clots (size of my hand), and the last colposcopy showed a polyp growing down out of my cervix. I have very bad pains in my left lower pelvis that double me over and I feel like I'm going to pass out. I've had bi-manual exams but no pelvic ultrasound. DOES ANYONE HAVE SOME GIRL-TO-GIRL SUPPORT/SHARE EXPERIENCE on this issue?

Answer: I had the same at age 19, now 34. I did the cone biopsy and I was still able to have children. I ended up having the leep procedure, where they take a hot wire and scoop out the cancerous cells. I had relief from pain around my periods after I ceased using the Pill and the cells were removed. I did not have to have chemo but did do a round of steroids that caused me great physical discomfort. I had check ups every six months for three years and then every year there after. I ended up with hypothyroidism that seem to mirror your symptoms, if you're young sometimes they forget to test your thyroid. Ask for the TSH and T4 test. (I'm not a doctor by the way) I know you are scared. Scared that you are dying or its worse than you know. All I can tell you is its a natural fear and it does go away. Also, the people you are the closest too seem to be the ones that pull away, they're scared too. Just keep looking for the good things in your life. You can do this, you're strong! Best wishes, you'll do fine.

Question: How do I help my friend who has just been diagnosed with cervical cancer? My friend is 35 and found out yesterday that she has cervical cancer. She says she threw up most of last night (not because she's sick, it's because she's so upset). I know that many people can overcome cervical cancer and that this is a cancer that can be treated. If you have any suggestions on how I can support her, that would be appreciated.

Answer: I'm sorry to hear about your friend. You just need to be there for her to listen, laugh, cry, take her to appointments, etc. The most important thing is to just spend time with her and do what feels right for you. You can offer to take her to appointments, ask her if she wants you to help her research options and things like that. It's really tough watching a loved one go through something like this but you will know what is right. You wont ever regret spending as much time as possible with her. Good Luck! If you ever want to talk, please don't hesitate to e-mail me.

Question: looking for an online support group for my sister who has cervical and uterine cancer.? can anyone help?

Answer: Here is the address for the ACOR Gynecological Cancer listserv. They currently have 251 members who either have gynecological cancer or are caregivers. ACOR hosts lists for over a hundred types of cancer. These lists are non-commercial and moderated to stop spam and off-topic material. She will be able to meet people going through the same treatments and same problems. http://listserv.acor.org/archives/gyn-onc.html There is also a list for Ovarian Problems Discussion Group. This is a very active list with over 1300 members. She might want to join both lists for a while and see which list is most appropriate for her situation. good luck http://listserv.acor.org/archives/ovarian.html

Question: What do you think of the cervical cancer needles that are free for all females? Many people have supported them, but many people say there is not enough research to back them up. What is your opinion? here is a link if you want to read up on anything . Not sure which countries the vaccine is actually available in http://www.health.gov.au/cervicalcancer

Answer: I just had my 3rd shot on Friday, it was very painful! I live in Australia, so mine were free. Even though it only protects against certain types of cancer i'd rather get 3 needles than risk getting cancer. If there wasn't enough research to back it up, then frankly it wouldn't be given to girls - obviously it has aided in the protection of cancer. If its free then get it, because you're not losing anything. If its expensive, and you have the money then get it...its alot easier than getting cancer.

Question: Serious inquiries only please!!! Question about cervical cancer? I have a friend who was just diagnosed with cervical cancer and was wondering if anyone living in Florida knew of a support group that she can contact??? We are unsure of the stage or treatment plan until next week. Any information is appreciated. Thank you.

Answer: Where in Florida? Maybe I can get some specific information for you/her. I also live in Florida. That is crazy I live there also. Contact NCH or http://www.eyesontheprize.org/cgi-local/support.cgi?action=detail&ID=78 The link below is a bit of a drive, but I have heard some wonderful things about this group. http://www.gildasclubsouthflorida.org/ I hope this helped. :o)

Question: I'm 36 and was diagnosed with Cervical Cancer. After Radiation & Chemo I'll be having a Radical Hysterectomy? I would really like to hear from people who have been through it and their personal experiences. Such as, how to mentally prepare for all of this, problems that occured, things you did to ease your discomforts, pains, etc. Things you bought that helped you tremendously. How the hospital stay was. Support sites, groups, etc... Anything you can think of to share would be most helpful. Thank you.

Answer: When I was 35, I had to have an emergency radical hysterectomy. I won't get into why but I didn't have time to prepare. I have a wonderful husband who helped me through this. The Dr made sure I was pain free in the hospital and out. Your Dr will give you pain meds. My hospital stay was wonderful if you can believe that, The nurses were so good. so sympathetic to my situation and never was a harsh word spoken or no one treated me like an idiot. I was not a nurse at the time. just to clarify. Support? I had a lot from family, church, and my Dr. I never attended groups because I didn't need it. When I got depressed because I knew I could never have any more children, my Dr would stay on the phone with me as long as I needed. To be fair, I already had 4 children. I don't know if you have any children. It isn't that bad, really. The pain lasted only about 2 weeks at home but with the pain medication, I was alright. You can't do anything strenuous of course, and let people wait on you. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Your true friends will be more than willing to cook for you, help with housework, or children if you have them. I hope you get the support I got. I can't say anything bad about the care I got. I wish you the best and God bless you. I know what you will be going through, but have a positive attitude because you know there is no other alternative and when you accept it, you will do fine. If you need to talk, I will be so happy to help you. I will be here for you if you need me.

Question: cervical cancer - any help groups? this is hard, i am a 25yo who is in the process of finding out if my cervical cancer is back, i was treated for it 3 years ago and was never able to be put in touch with anyone to talk to, i live in a semi rural area and the only support group was for breast cancer, with women who many had children my age, so i was depressing them and it wasn't helping me (different cancer different feelings) as part of the treatment they've talked about removing my reproductive organs - (i don't have children) not something people with breast cancer in their 50's really have to worry about. the do i or don't i want kids question a single 22yo has to start asking themself. anyway like i said i am waiting the next lot of tests to find out if it's back and was wondering if anyone out there knew of any good support groups (in victoria - australia) or chat sites to help me through it again thank you

Answer: I hope you fight this, and keep your positive spirit alive. I suggest you look into http://www.positivecancer.com Its not exactly what your looking for but the message is good for you i think.

Question: Cervical cancer: Did Merck buy the Gov. of Texas? Or, is Texas Gov. Rick Perry doing the right thing by requiring schoolgirls as young as 11 to be vaccintated against the sexually transmitted disease? And what does this mean for his conservative Christan support base, that don't want the government imposing its will on the indivdual? And did Perry sell out to Merck lobbists for money? FYI - Full Perry story here: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20070202/ap_on_he_me/cervical_cancer Cancer info here: http://www.cancer.org/docroot/CRI/content/CRI_2_4_1X_What_is_cervical_cancer_8.asp

Answer: It completely blows my mind that a Gubernatorial Executive Order could be used in this kind of completely NON-emergent situation. Even though HPV -may- be the largest cause of cervical cancer, Guardasil doesn't protect against -all- of the causes of cervical cancer, doesn't necessarily provide 100% protection even against HPV, and, even if a person were to get HPV, as a midwife I was taught that over 80% of those infections clear up ON THEIR OWN, without even having any symptoms, and another 10% clear up with palliative treatment and no after effects...and without increasing the risk of cancer in that individual. This is ridiculous!

Question: Cervical cancer? Partner won't..........? hi all, i've been attending a gyne and am awaiting results of a smear, and have to go back for further tests as cervical cancer has been mentioned. Anyway, through all this my fiance has been a great support to me. The only thing is when we're 'being intimate', he is constantly checking 'below' to see if i'm bleeding or anything like that, (which i'm not), and its putting a strain on our sex life, not just with that its just he's not into oral, or anything like that. He says its just until we see if everything is fine, as he doesn't want to 'catch' anything off me!!!!!!!!! I've showed him information about cervical cancer and sex life, and he has saw that he cannot 'catch' anything, but I just don't know what to say to him anymore. I miss the closeness we had while 'being intimate'. Sorry if this seems like an inapropriate question, but its just that other this i don't know what to do. Sorry, BTW i don't have the HPV virus,

Answer: Hey, By your question, it seems that clarification will be the only answer for you and your husband. Obviously, this event in both your lives is not of the "norm" and you say that you are waiting your smear test result. Im not sure on what grounds you were sent to further tests, but just to educate you, there are three different stages of pre-cancerous changes of the cervix which can occur until (eventually) a cancer of the cervix develops. So these three stages include, mild, moderate and severe changes within the cervical cells and then cancer. You also have other catagories such as "borderline" which could be something or nothing and "inadequate" where there just arnt enough cells. I dont know which catagory you have fallen into but it sounds like you have been sent for colposcopy. Even so sweety, I think you should just wait for the outcome of what results are. This should make no difference but since your partner is slightly confused but incredibly supportive, i think you did your best and tried to reassure him but womanly body parts are never understood by the male gender. Once you have got clarification, either way, negative or something abnormal, I think you can get specific advice as to which catagory you fall into. Im sure your closness will come back and him being supportive is a wonderful thing. You should know in a matter of weeks though. Good luck. Email me if you need any other clarification x

Question: Cervical Cancer and Pregnancy? I am 21 years old, and about a year and a half ago, I was diagnosed with precancerous cervical cells. I have had a cryo and a LEEP procedure, yet I still have active precancerous cells. Since I do want to have kids, my doctor does not want to do anymore procedures. She gave me 2 years to become pregnant and give birth. She said she couldn't promise me any longer before the cells turned cancerous or she has to do more procedures. It's been 6 months, so I have a year and a half left. I have the support of my family and fiance if I want to get pregnant now, as well as being stable financally. We want to have children for sure. I was wondering, if you were me, would you get off the pill now and start trying, or wait a few more months? I just would like some opinions "outside of the family" lol ;-). Please, no preaching about getting married first.

Answer: If you are in love, and you know you are going to marry your fiance without a doubt, and you are financially stable, and are ready for kids, then yes. It's better to do it now, instead of wishing you had down the line when it's too late. Remember, though, that anything can happen, even a miracle! Also, getting prego can take as little as one cycle after the pill (like I did), or can take a while, so be patient. If it is meant to be, it will happen. If you do not get prego and still want kids, always remember there is adoption. I wish you the best of luck and hope the cancer thing is just a scare and you stay healthy! Good luck!

Question: i got the all clear today for cervical cancer after my treatment.? would like to say a heartfelt thanks to all those that gave advice on my previous question about it. your support was friendly and helped me through such a tough time xx

Answer: I am so pleased for you and you must be over the moon after all the worry you must have had. I think Yahoo answers are great when they help so many people in a good possitive way. Thank you for telling us how you are as sometimes I do worry when I read something and noone knows how things turned out.

Question: online support group? I had been in a monogamous relationship for 3 years, have had pap smears, HIV, GC, chlmaydia, HPV and herpes testing every year just to be sure and everything was always negative. I recently found out that my "monogamous" partner has been sleeping with many women and having unprotected sex. So I just recently (December) went to the ob-gyn and again had all of these tests performed. I found out this week that I have high risk HPV and my pap smear showed CIN II she indicated that I may have cervical cancer and need further testing which has been scheduled. I was also informed that my HSV2 also came back positive. Needless to say I am devestated with the results of thes tests especially that I have been 100% monagamous to a man for 3 years that I thought I would marry and he has given me something that I will live the rest of my life with. Previous to this relationship I was married for 20 years and totally single for 4years. I am devestated and depressed and there is really noone around me that I can talk to about this and I have been looking for online support groups where you can remain anonomys. I am embarrased and humiliated that this has happened to me and right at the moment I really do not know how to deal with it. Sorry if this was too much information or not the proper information to post but I have never been part of an online group before.

Answer: try daily strength it is exactly what you are looking for http://dailystrength.org/

Question: what would you do if you had cancer? i have recently been diagnosed with cervical cancer , they want me to have a hysterectomy. the fact i have cancer doesn't really scare me , but that I'm going to never finish my family i have a daughter who has just turned two i also had a son but he passed away at 6 months around that time i lost my husband and my unborn baby. the doctors have told me i do have enough time to have one more child but i only been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks now we've spoken about it and he said that he doesn't have a problem with having a baby with me evan if we aren't going to be together forever he said hell still support me and the baby. but there is still the chance i wont make it, so not only with i loose my daughter but a new child i really do want just one more but i don't want it to suffer what would u do?

Answer: Quite literally I was in the EXACT same situation as you. When I was 14 I had twins prematurely and they passed away after they were born. I was diagnosed with cervical cancer 6 months later. They did a more simple procedure because mine had not developed enough to need a hysterectomy, but they told me I would be able to carry a baby full term. But when I was 18 my husband and I had a baby. Truly a miracle, and my OB said if I wanted another I had to do it because the older I got the harder it would, so we had another baby, with ALOT of complications, but he's here. 9 months after he was born I was diagnosed with cervical cancer that spread to the endometrial tissue. They said a similar thing. And at that point I chose the hyst with out another baby. However my pregnancy alone could kill me. When i was pregnant with my son I had severe complications that nearly killed me and my doc thinks they would happen again. So I've gone both ways. Once I chose the baby and once I didn't. No one can help you with this decision though honey. When I chose to have my baby I knew a part of me would feel empty with out another baby and I wanted it to be MINE i didn't want to adopt. And with out feeling whole especially after already losing a child, what was the point?? SO i had my son. I still felt like I was missing something. Now I think I was trying to replace my twins..and it obviously didn't work. I can not imagine my life now with out my son and I'm glad I had him. HOWEVER, now with both my boys I think....Is a POTENTIAL child worth me leaving the two loves of my life??? How selfish of me would it be to risk my children that are already here losing their mom because she wanted another baby??? I couldn't do it. I couldn't risk leaving the babies I had alone in the world. Personally I suppose going through both I would say...I doubt you'll ever feel like you have a complete family after losing your child already...Be grateful for what you have, and save yourself. Do the hysterectomy. But like I said no one will be able to make this decision for you, or even be able to help you that much in making it...Just know i've been there both ways..and I still feel empty...But then again I think I always will. If you ever want to chat feel free to email or IM me krystinak4903@yahoo.com

Question: Should I tell my boyfriend I might have cancer? A year ago I got diagnosed with mutatingly benign cervical cancer. I recently went in for my one year pap and found out that I have mild dysplasia. My live-in boyfriend of a year is currently away for 9 weeks to become a police officer. Should i tell him now so that he knows what is going on or should I keep it to myself until he is done so that I don't worry him with this and risk taking his mind off of what he should be concentrating on right now which is the police academy? The drs. really think that what looks mild may actually be worse than anticipated because of my cancer history and I must go in immediately for testing. Should I be cluing him in or is that selfish of me to want his support?

Answer: I think you should tell him, he deserves to know, just explain to him that the doctors say it's mild, but you just wanted to let him know, if I was your boyfriend i would like to be kept in the loop :)